Flow don't bob

There's a difference between bobbing and following the flow. Sometimes it's great to bobble for awhile. But eventually, part of being an adult is about making decisions. Making decisions knowing you don't get to do everything. That you have to release some of the things you want to do. Hopefully, you listen to the flow of the universe, then being a grown up, you make a choice saying "I may never get to do that other thing". But the alternative is you end up doing none of it.